TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS IN CAMPUS.

A toxic relationship is one that makes you feel unsupported, misunderstood, demeaned, or attacked.on a basic level,any relationship that makes you feel worse rather than better can become toxic over time .

 A relationship is toxic when your well being is threatened in some way emotionally, psychologically and even physically.these are sign of toxic relationships in campuses Relationships that involves physical  or verbal abuse are definitely classified as toxic.But there are other, more subtle signs of a toxic relationship including;

• You give more than you're getting,which makes you feel that you are not enough for your partner.

• You feel disrespected all the time and you can't complain about it or talk it out because fear loosing him/her and sometimes your needs aren't being met.

• You feel depressed, angry  after speaking to your partner because you keep on arguing the same story over and over.

• You bring out the worst in each other or you are not your best self around each other.

• You spend alot of time and emotional trying to cheer them up or you feel like walking on eggshell around this person so that not cross their boundaries.

• You are always to blame,they turn their faults into your faults,and you end up apologising for things they did.

What behaviour shows that your partner is toxic

1. Insecure

2. Jealous 

3. Negative 

4. Self centred 

5. Selfish

6. Critical

7. Demeaning

8. Distrusting

9. Abusive

10. Disrespectful 

If your partner have these behaviour my friend you should run that relationship will swallow you whole,don't let anyone to create havoc in your life.you should know when to let go,don't let anyone to hold you back,don't let anyone to Disrespect you,value yourself first because toxic relationship detoriates your self esteem.

   

  What behaviour shows that you are in a healthy relationship 

1. Secure

2. Loving

3. Positive

4. Giving

5. Selfless

6. Encouraging 

7. Uplifting 

8. Trustworthy 

9. Compassionate

10. Respectful